Rules and Guidelines

Attendance

  • You must be 21 or older to attend.

  • Everyone must apply and go through a vetting call with a staff member

  • You must adhere to the theme/dress code

  • Tickets are non-refundable and non-exchangeable.

Privacy

  • No cell phones allowed inside; phones will be stored securely by the host.

  • No photography or video recording during the event

  • Confidentiality is essential—do not share member or event details publicly or with media

Consent

  • Always ask for clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent before touching or engaging in any activity.

  • Consent can be withdrawn at any time—respect it immediately.

  • If you feel uncomfortable or witness unsafe behavior, notify staff immediately.

  • Misbehavior or violating rules can lead to removal from the event and loss of membership.

  • Respect all boundaries and communicate openly about your own.

Health & Safety

  • STI testing is recommended. Be prepared to discuss your current STI status openly with partners.

  • Condoms are recommended and any non use must be agreed upon by both parties.

  • Wash hands and toys after play; clean toys properly, especially shared ones.

  • If you bring your own toys and props; you are responsible for your belongings.

  • Respect the safe word “RED”

  • Security is onsite as well as Primal Guardians who have on yellow glow necklaces and bracelets

Conduct & Play Etiquette

  • Respect ongoing scenes: do not interrupt or join without full, explicit consent from all participants.

  • Physical proximity does not imply consent to touch.

  • Casual touch requires mutual awareness and communication; when in doubt, ask first.

  • Follow the traffic light system for communication: green = go, yellow = check-in, red = stop.

  • No exchange of money or transactional dynamics allowed during events.

  • Guardians and Security are present for your safety and can intervene if necessary.

Substance & Environment

  • No illegal substances or weapons allowed.

  • Alcohol service may be refused if intoxication is excessive.

  • Smoking/vaping only permitted in specific outdoor areas.

  • Respect noise levels near active scenes and keep the environment clean.